WE ALL MAKE DECISIONS THAT DO NOT GO AS PLANNED

We all make decisions that do not go as planned. When I was a kid, I was always jealous of the girls who could tap dance. So as an adult, I was sure I’d like taking a class tap dance. Nothing could be further from the truth. I was actually quite boring, not to mention the highly contested. I decided that I was not as excited about tap dancing, as I had originally thought. I’m sure, Youve made the wrong choice, in the past, even if you’ve seen all the warning signs. All of us have, including myself. Red flags present when I married my ex-husband. I saw them and I ignored them because I was convinced that this was the best option for our little boy, who was only one at the time.

I was not surprised when, within one year, we were separated. They also made sure that there were times you made the best decision you could make. Maybe you took a sheet of paper and wrote down all the pros and cons of each option. As educated and informed decisions, as it still does not go as planned. Does this mean that you can not trust yourself in the future to make the right choice? The answer to this question is no. Life changes, people change, and we have no control over that.
Love yourself, trust yourself. How can you trust other people if you can not trust yourself? The bottom line is that you need to feel comfortable with yourself because you know yourself better than anyone else does. Let me give you an example.

For a long period of time, my husband does not like his hairstyle. Every morning, he asked me how his hair looked, and I will tell him that it looked good. Even people at work told him his hair looked good. One day he said to me, I do not know if I can believe that people have when they say that my hair looks good. Why would he think that people would he lie? He was not able to trust me or people on the job because I did not trust myself. Until he became comfortable with his own hair, he would not believe that others were doing the original comments about his hair.